Saturday, August 14, 2010
How to be strong when you lost your love
when you lost your love may be sometimes you can bear it and may be sometimes you cant, it depends
on person and how you loved.but the most important thing is to be strong enough to bear love or
sorrow.in this case girls are bit stronger than the boys because girls can control their feelings
than boys most of the times.
If your lover left you,first of all you have to prepare for a new life than doing any other thing.
this is actually not esay task to forget your love your dreams your past happy memories ...you may feel
like i cant never do so and i cant be without her/him.that is what your heart tells you but try your
best to think from the brain and find a solution.To be strong means to be continue your work and other
things without missing them as you did.may be sometimes you feel like you cant eat you cant do anything
actualy your not in a good mood to anything.this is the main weak point and we have to get rid of this
first of all.
First of all tell your sorrows to a trusted friend without hiding a single thing.
Dont try to sleep much and engage in some work all the time it will helps you to forget your sorrow.
Dont listen to love songs or boot songs though how much your heart tempts to listen them.
If you listen to love or boot songs it will recollect your past and your loving dreams.
Be busy all the time and dont stay lonly even for a single moment,go some where if you cant go some where
just be with your parents or family members.
Remove all the connections with your lover and dont keep a single thing he /she gave you.
Talk to the opposite sex all the time and find a lover as soon as you can.
Those points are to forget your love and by forgetting your lost love you will be able to do your
work as you did previously.when you become weak because of your lover left you ,that will be a advantage
to him/her.remember this very carefully dont give him/her the satisfaction and the happiness by hurting
you by leaving you.if you give this satisfaction he / she become stronger and dont let it happen.
even though how much it hurts you and how you cant be without him/her stay as you can and that will
weaken your lover than you think.Even by expressions dont show that you have something in your mind about
him/her.
In this time some cant eat and some cant sleep there are issues like that.may be you cant eat but try to
eat some thing if you cant eat drink some juice or something which you like.try to do things which
you like.if it is really diffcult for you to sleep watch a movie or talk with someone if there is
no option watch at least the television.these things will help you to forget your past things and
be stronger than you think.
Sunday, August 8, 2010
How to Get My Boyfriend Back
Are you sad and lonely? Do you want him back? Do you ask yourself "how to get my boyfriend back? Well, read this article and you'll find out how you can get him back.
The act of getting boyfriend back doesn't happen sometimes because some women are doing the wrong things that must not be done. They keep on doing mistakes that makes their boyfriend stay further away from them. So, if you're one those women I'm referring to then you must follow the tips listed below.
Tips on getting your boyfriend back:
Limit your contact with him. Also, never ever try to chase, stalk, or hound him. This will make him get irritated with you and this might lead him to stay away from you.
Never allow yourself to feel jealous. Always remember that being jealous will not help you to get him back.
On the other hand, making your ex boyfriend jealous might work. Jealousy is considered to be very powerful and enable some people to do sorts of foolish things. However, you should not exceed to the limit because he might misinterpret your actions.
If after the breakup your ex boyfriend invite you for a friendly dinner, go for it. However, you must not show excitement about the dinner, control emotions and be modest.
Keep your spirits up and focus on the positive things in life. Mingle or hang out with your friends like you used to do. Doing this will definitely help you move forward on winning him back.
Be true with yourself. Don't pretend that you're someone else just to be liked by him. Show who and what you are.
Never use your ex boyfriend's best friend for revenge because this will absolutely hurt his feelings.
Be delicate before you try something obvious. The first thing you must do is to pick up his signal.
Be sincere and honest with yourself and especially with him. Tell him that you want this thing to work.
Never let him notice that you miss him that much. Because showing it will let him think that you can't live without him.
Don't cry, beg or plea just for him to come back. Men don't want to live with a person who is clingy and needy.
Don't be too aggressive or pushy. Instead, show him that you're in control.
Give him space and time. Allow him to think and evaluate the situation you have right now.
Always make yourself attractive and sexy. This will help you get his attention with you.
Be strong and don't show any desperation. Always think positive. If you do this, he will want to be with you again because of how strong you are.
So, these are the tips that will help you get him back. They're quite simple and easy right? Now it is time for you to apply them and get your ex boyfriend back.
Next, how would you like to know some real insider secrets which will have him running after you and not the other way around?
A few tips which will make him go nuts the way he did when he first met you.
Saturday, August 7, 2010
How to Find Your True Love
love is like a game but bit dangerous.you have do play it very carefully by observing your lovers every movement from bottom to the top.If you didn't observe those deeds and behave according to your lover one day it will be a big problem to you.If your lover care about you if your lover love you if your lover gives everything you want and be only with you I am asking wt more do you want? but unfortunately most people don't know what is the real meaning of love and what is love...
If someone loves you
His or her life will be you
His or her everything will be you.
He or she always try to be with you.
He or she cant never leave you or if something happend he or she will miss you like nothing.
He or she will dedicate his or her everything to you(may be you will think this as a madness
but one day you will realize those dedications are for you & love love)
He or she will never refuse any of your serious request.
He or she will forgive even when you did a mistake or bad thing.
He or she will balance everything of you and the family very carefully.
this is the love and the proofs but if someone is saying that he or she loves you
without fulfilling those things there should be a problem.for everything in this world
there is a reason and it is same even in the love also.If your lovers life is not you
but his or her friends there should be a reason for that & problem in love.But in
this case if he or she consider you as the life and the friends as external party it wont
be a problem but it depends on the understanding & the behavior.
If his or her everything is not you or never try to be with you all the time and
instead of even trying to do so if they give thousands of excuses for mistakes it is the first step
of ending your love.
In any case if he or she happens to leave you because of any reason he or she will miss
you like nothing and definitely come to you by amending all the things.but unfortunately
if he or she is not missing you much or can stay without you means there is a problem in
love and how he or she loved you.missing is happening according to the space that you have to your
lover in your heart.
Your lover will dedicate everything for you if he or she truly loves you but if he or she is
having excuses for all those things there should be a problem and if he or she is not coming
to meet you and giving hundreds of excuses that is also a problem because if he or she is
loves you he or she cant stay without seen you.
He or she will never refuse any of your serious request, even there is no way lover find a way
to do that or to do some thing because you are the most important person in this world to
him or her.
He or she forgive you for your mistakes but not because of their weakness but because of true love.
If your lover have these qualities you are really lucky and he or she truly loving you.but if
you have problems there should be a problem in love also.
Monday, August 2, 2010
My Heart & Your Stone
When we are together you ask me to come but i didnt
When we are together you ask me to talk but i didnt
When we are together you ask me to walk but i didnt
When we are together you ask me to love but i didnt
When we are not together i need to come but you dont
When we are not together i need to talk but you dont
When we are not together i need to walk but you dont
When we are not together i need to love but you dont
You know how much i love you...
You know how much i care you...
You know how much i need you...
You know how much i miss you...
Dont know how much you love me..
Dont know how much you care me..
Dont know how much you need me..
Dont know how much you miss me..
I cant stop this love but you can darling...
I cant stop this care but you can darling...
I cant stop this need but you can darling...
I cant stop this miss but you can darling...
Everything is because i have a heart & you have a stone my sweetheart...
LOVE you...
Sunday, August 1, 2010
my love & your love
You were my life ..
You were my strength..
You were my courage ..
Actually You were my LOVE..........
But Today....
I dont have a life
I dont have a strength
I dont have a courage
Actually I dont have a LOVE........
Because my sweetheart you are not there..
I loved you more than anything
I loved you more than my family
I loved you more than my studies
Actually I loved you more than even my life....
But my sweet heart you havent....
You ruined all my dreams
You ruined all my hopes
You ruined all my babies
Actually You ruined all my life....
But my sweet heart why???
I dont know why do i love you
I dont know why dont i hate you
I dont know why i trust you
Actually I dont know why i cant be without you....
I dont know...I really DONT know my sweet heart....
LOVE YOU FOREVER..
How love makes You Strong & Week
the most creative thing that the god have ever made is love.it is so nice and interesting
when the love is ok but it is worse when it is not ok.Love will give you the happiness ,Strength
courage and all the other things when the love is going nicely but when the love fails it will
take all the things from you except the presents & happy moments which your lover gave you.
this is the nature of the love and this is the life.
When two are in a true love the problems which come forward to you will be nothing for them
because the courage & the strength which they have gain from the true love.may be parents say
no to their love but if they have the courage to be together some day some how that is the most
important thing in love. problems make you very very strong & indirectely it improves the
love also.the love which you do to your lover and the jelousy which you have to give him/her
to someone & the dreams which you have created will make you realy stronger.If you want to
keep this courage note them in a pease of paper & read them when ever you feel you are week.
this is how the love makes you strong.
As the love makes you strong there is the opposite side of this also.it is when the love fails
it will automatically kills you & your strength.you may feel like your not in good mood to
do anything you need to stay lonly & may be your not interest in anything.this is what love
does to someone when it fails.this failier can destroy a person as love can rebuild a person.
when the love fails you are getting week day by day step by step not because of any
other thing but because of our own faults.If your love fails try to do as following and it
will make you bit comfortable and help to get rid of this sicknees.
1) Find someone who you can tell your situation and what happend.dont keep anything in your
mind tell everything to your friend.in this case it is better if you can find a opposite
sex.
2) Dont stay a single moment free.do something be busy all the time.when you are busy you
dont have a time to worry.
3) Talk to the opposite sex all the time when you can.this will be a really help you to
forget your sorrow.
4) Dont listen to boot & love songs if you can because it memeorize all the past things
of days when you two were together.If you need to listen to music listen from a other
language that you cant understand.
5) If you can dont stay home specially in your room.go some where even to a friends place.
then it will be easy for you to erase things from your mind.
things like this will help you to get rid of the weekness which you got from your pure
love.
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