when you lost your love may be sometimes you can bear it and may be sometimes you cant, it depends
on person and how you loved.but the most important thing is to be strong enough to bear love or
sorrow.in this case girls are bit stronger than the boys because girls can control their feelings
than boys most of the times.
If your lover left you,first of all you have to prepare for a new life than doing any other thing.
this is actually not esay task to forget your love your dreams your past happy memories ...you may feel
like i cant never do so and i cant be without her/him.that is what your heart tells you but try your
best to think from the brain and find a solution.To be strong means to be continue your work and other
things without missing them as you did.may be sometimes you feel like you cant eat you cant do anything
actualy your not in a good mood to anything.this is the main weak point and we have to get rid of this
first of all.
First of all tell your sorrows to a trusted friend without hiding a single thing.
Dont try to sleep much and engage in some work all the time it will helps you to forget your sorrow.
Dont listen to love songs or boot songs though how much your heart tempts to listen them.
If you listen to love or boot songs it will recollect your past and your loving dreams.
Be busy all the time and dont stay lonly even for a single moment,go some where if you cant go some where
just be with your parents or family members.
Remove all the connections with your lover and dont keep a single thing he /she gave you.
Talk to the opposite sex all the time and find a lover as soon as you can.
Those points are to forget your love and by forgetting your lost love you will be able to do your
work as you did previously.when you become weak because of your lover left you ,that will be a advantage
to him/her.remember this very carefully dont give him/her the satisfaction and the happiness by hurting
you by leaving you.if you give this satisfaction he / she become stronger and dont let it happen.
even though how much it hurts you and how you cant be without him/her stay as you can and that will
weaken your lover than you think.Even by expressions dont show that you have something in your mind about
him/her.
In this time some cant eat and some cant sleep there are issues like that.may be you cant eat but try to
eat some thing if you cant eat drink some juice or something which you like.try to do things which
you like.if it is really diffcult for you to sleep watch a movie or talk with someone if there is
no option watch at least the television.these things will help you to forget your past things and
be stronger than you think.
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